She Turned Me Down

For many people, proposing is among the biggest decisions they will ever make and a question that they only want to ask once. Making the decision to be with your partner forever, is a choice that not only men have to make, but women too. It is easy to see yourself with the one you love for the rest of your life.

Just because you have a fancy surprise planned and have a beautiful ring in hand, does not mean that everything will go your way. What happens if the answer is “no?” Whatever the reason for her saying no is, the feeling of being hurt, embarrassed, and disappointed is the same, despite the legitimacy of the reason. So what do you think is the way forward, for a man in such a situation? Should the relationship continue? If it does, will it withstand this trying moment?

However confident you may be in your proposal, the person on the receiving end may not be. If this happens and she says no, there are three things you need to make sure you do. You need to keep cool, calm and collected despite what you may be feeling. Panic can make the situation a whole lot worse when this takes you by surprise, especially if you explain something in a way that maybe you should not have. Which leads us to the next point.

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