Sex And Intimacy

Fantasies Is this the impossible dream? According to top sexperts, men's sexual fantasies range from submission to domination, and from voyeurism to exhibitionism. Here are some things guys wish their partners would try. The nature of sexual fantasies is they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires. "Fantasies are fantasies because they are not reality — they are often taboo or rub up against social barriers," says Ian Kerner, PhD, a men's sexual health expert and co-author of The Big Fun Sexy Sex Book. Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and again, he adds, and "then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood." Perhaps one of the simplest male sexual fantasies is just having his partner direct the sex script for the night. Whether it is a full-on dominatrix or simply a partner who knows what they want and how to get it, many men find the thrill of a confident and sexual partner to be very appealing, explains Laura Berman, PhD, a sex expert and author of Loving Sex : The Book of Joy and Passion. "It can be tiresome to always feel like the pursuer. Feeling pursued can be a very sexy change, and it can also be a huge ego boost," she says.

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